For couples who want to understand each other, change unhealthy patterns, reconnect, or intentionally take a good marriage to its next level.
Explore The Marriage ResetFor individuals rebuilding after a breakup, separation, divorce, betrayal, or a significant relationship ending.
Explore The Relationship ResetNot ready for a four-week program? Start with one session — see how you're both wired before deciding what's next.
Explore the Relationship DISC PackageSee How You're Both Wired — Together.
One session with Dr. Alfred E. Smith.
DISC gives both of you a shared vocabulary for something you've been navigating by instinct for years. Two separate assessments, so neither of you is guessing at the other's results — then one relationship report and one hour, together, walking through what it actually means for the way you argue, plan, and recover.
This isn't for couples in trouble. It's for couples who'd rather understand each other on purpose than by accident.
Ready for more? This is the natural first step before The Marriage Reset.
You Named the Pattern. Now Interrupt It.
Two live sessions with Dr. Alfred E. Smith.
Not every couple needs a full four-week rebuild. Sometimes it's one recurring pattern — the same argument, the same shutdown, the same misread — that keeps resurfacing. The Marriage Rewire takes what the DISC Package surfaced and works it live, twice, until the pattern actually changes.
Understand Each Other. Change the Pattern. Build What Comes Next.
A four-week private couples coaching experience with Dr. Alfred E. Smith.
Your marriage does not have to be falling apart to benefit from a reset. The Marriage Reset is for couples who are struggling, disconnected, stalled, navigating change — or simply ready to build an even stronger relationship. Rather than focusing on who is right or wrong, we examine the two people inside the marriage and the patterns they repeatedly create together.
DISC helps reveal how each partner naturally communicates, processes, responds under pressure, and handles conflict. Self-Image helps us go deeper into what each person's behavior may have come to mean to the other.
How am I wired, and what happens inside me?
How are you wired, and what might I be misunderstanding?
What pattern do we repeatedly create together?
Rebuilding Your Self-Image After a Breakup, Divorce, or Significant Relationship Ending.
A four-week private coaching experience with Dr. Alfred E. Smith.
A relationship can end in a moment. The picture you formed of yourself inside that relationship may take longer to change. The Relationship Reset is designed to help you rebuild confidence, self-trust, boundaries, happiness, decisions, and your picture of the future after a significant relationship ends.
This is not about getting your former partner back. It is about making sure the ending does not get the final word on who you are.
The relationship ended. You did not.
Relationship problems are not always caused by a lack of love. Sometimes two people communicate differently, process differently, respond to pressure differently — and begin interpreting those differences personally.
How you are naturally wired to communicate, respond, decide, connect, and handle pressure.
What becomes activated inside you, and what another person's behavior may have come to mean about you.
What happens when those individual patterns repeatedly interact.
The goal isn't to label people. It's to understand the pattern well enough to change what happens next.
Dr. Alfred E. Smith is the creator of the S.E.L.F. I.M.A.G.E. Method and a certified DISC, Emotional Intelligence, StrengthsFinder, and leadership coach. He brings more than three decades of experience working with individuals, couples, and families as a pastor, coach, mentor, educator, and leader. His relationship work combines behavioral insight with the deeper self-image patterns that influence what people believe, interpret, tolerate, communicate, and repeatedly create.